Tell Me What You Want Sexual Desire Science Book by Justin J. Lehmiller is an illuminating paperback that draws on one of the largest scientific surveys of human sexuality ever conducted. Written by a leading researcher and the voice behind the Sex and Psychology blog, it offers a candid, evidence-based look into the fantasy worlds that shape our desires and relationships.
The book explores what people truly want when it comes to sex, and whether those wants can be satisfied within real relationships. Rather than relying on assumptions or stereotypes, it presents findings from thousands of respondents, mapping the surprising diversity of sexual fantasy and what those patterns reveal about who we are.
Readers come away with practical insight into their own desires and a deeper understanding of a partner's needs. By normalizing the sheer range of human fantasy, this thoughtful guide helps reduce the anxiety and shame that so often surround these conversations, opening the door to more honest, connected intimacy.
Key Features
- Written by sexuality expert Justin J. Lehmiller
- Based on a landmark large-scale scientific survey
- Practical guidance for understanding your own and a partner's desires
- Approachable, judgment-free tone that reduces shame and anxiety
Specifications
- Format: Paperback
- Length: 288 pages
- Author: Justin J. Lehmiller
- Publisher: Hachette
Whether you are curious about the science of attraction or looking to enrich your relationship, the Tell Me What You Want Sexual Desire Science Book is an engaging, empowering read that turns research into real-world understanding.